LDAP_OPT_MATCH_STRING to ldap.h and libldap/options.c.

This commit includes many changes.  All changes compile under NT but
have not been tested under UNIX.

A Summary of changes (likely incomplete):

NT changes:
	Removed lint.
	Clean up configuration support for "Debug", "Release", "SDebug",
		and "SRelease" configurations.
	Share output directories for clients, libraries,
		and slapd.  (maybe they should be combined further
		and moved to build/{,S}{Debug,Release}).
	Enable threading when _MT is defined.
	Enable debuging when _DEBUG is defined.
	Disable setting of NDEBUG under Release/SRelease.  Asserts
		are disabled in <ac/assert.h> when LDAP_DEBUG is not
		defined.
	Added 'build/main.dsp' Master project.
	Removed non-slapd projects from slapd.dsp (see main.dsp).
	Removed replaced many uses of _WIN32 macro with feature based
		macros.

ldap_cdefs.h changes
	#define LDAP_CONST const
		(see below)
	#define LDAP_F(type) LDAP_F_PRE type LDAP_F_POST
		To allow specifiers to be added before and after
		the type declaration.  (For DLL handling)

LBER/LDAP changes
	Namespace changes:
		s/lber_/ber_/ for here and there.
		s/NAME_ERROR/LDAP_NAME_ERROR/g
	Deleted NULLMSG and other NULL* macros for namespace reasons.
	"const" libraries.  Installed headers (ie: lber.h, ldap.h)
		use LDAP_CONST macro.  Normally set to 'const' when
		__STDC__.  Can be set externally to enable/disable
		'constification' of external interface.  Internal
		interface always uses 'const'.  Did not fix warnings
		in -lldif (in lieu of new LDIF parser).

	Added _ext API implementations (excepting search and bind).
		Need to implement ldap_int_get_controls() for reponses
		with controls.

	Added numberous assert() checks.

LDAP_R
	_MT defines HAVE_NT_THREADS
	Added numberous assert() checks.
	Changed ldap_pthread_t back to unsigned long.  Used cast
	to HANDLE in _join().

LDBM
	Replaced _WIN32 with HAVE_SYSLOG

ud
	Added version string if MKVERSION is not defined.  (MKVERSION
		needs to be set under UNIX).

slapd
	Made connection sockbuf field a pointer to a sockbuf.  This
		removed slap.h dependency on lber-int.h.  lber-int.h now only
		included by those files needing to mess with the sockbuf.
	Used ber_* functions/macros to access sockbuf internals whenever
		possible.
	Added version string if MKVERSION is not defined.  (MKVERSION
		needs to be set under UNIX).
	Removed FD_SET unsigned lint

slapd/tools
	Used EXEEXT to added ".exe" to routines.  Need to define EXEEXT
		under UNIX.

ldappasswd
	Added ldappasswd.dsp.  Ported to NT.  Used getpid() to seed rand().

nt_debug
	Minor cleanup.  Added "portable.h" include and used <ac/*.h> where
	appropriate.  Added const to char* format argument.

support for TLS and SASL will be build.

Please inform me of any problems.

Updates regarding threads and names.

ldap_set/get_option support for controls.

at runtime.

Updated other codes as needed.

  -lldap_r can now be implemented...

  This could cause problems on odd systems.  The generic
  headers should be extended as needed to include necessary
  system headers or, if necessary, make explicit declarations.
Extended ac/string.h header to look for string.h/strings.h if
  STDC_HEADERS is not defined.  Also provide basic declarations for
  str*() functions.  This could cause problems on odd systems.
Extended ac/unistd.h header to define basic declaration for misc
  functions that might be missing from headers.   This includes
  externs for getenv(), getopt(), mktemp(), tempname().
Protect fax500.h from multiple inclusion.  Moved includes of
  system/generic headers back to source files.
Made mail500 helper functions static.
Fixed includes of ctype.h, signal.h, etc. to use generics.
lutil/tempname.c: was including stdlib.h twice, one should stdio.h.
Wrapped <sys/resource.h> with HAVE_SYS_RESOURCE_H.
lber/io.c/ber_get_next(): Changed noctets back to signed.
  Used with BerRead which expects signed int as second arg and
  returns signed int.

Most function and variable definitions are now preceded by its extern
definition, for error checking.  Retyped a number of functions, usually
to return void.  Fixed a number of printf format errors.

API changes (in ldap/include):
  Added avl_dup_ok, avl_prefixapply, removed ber_fatten (probably typo
  for ber_flatten), retyped ldap_sort_strcasecmp, grew lutil.h.

A number of `extern' declarations are left (some added by protoize), to
be cleaned away later.  Mostly strdup(), strcasecmp(), mktemp(), optind,
optarg, errno.

Modified clients to reduce use of ldapconfig.h.edit.
ldap_{get,set}_option support is relatively complete.  Needs
to be extended to support other "features" of OpenLDAP.

Add openldap_ldap_initialize() call to ldap_init/ldap_open/ldap_get/set_options.

updated clients to use ldap_get/set_options
ld_options is renamed ld_booleans.  ldap-int.h has accessor macros.
updated libldap to use new accessor macros.