Use LDAP_MALLOC instead of ch_malloc

Modify apitest to test for non-zero instead of LDAP_OPT_ON.

Accept X- experimental clauses.

includes single to multiple hooks changes.
ber_mem* reimplementation.
namespace glue (finally naming has not be decided upon nor implemented).
Added ldap_int_strdup to handle "internal" strdup'ing, this version uses hooks.
ldap_pvt_strdup still available for when strdup() is missing, this version
directly uses system allocators.
Updated -lldif to use ber allocators.  Items returned by ldif routines
should be ber_memfree()d as needed.

Relax some rules to survive Netscape DS brokennes, more to come.
A few parse_whsp were missing.
Detect and survive null input.

myrealloc is pointer to a realloc() wrapper.
Must be first library call or else.

Fixed parsing of noidlen

library use:
  LBER_ macros expand to system routines.
  LDAP_ macros expand to new ber_ allocators.

Add ber_ and ldap_ memory allocators/deallocator:
  ber_ routines are wrappers of LBER_ macros.
  ldap_ routines are wrappers of ber_ routines.

Removed safe_realloc() macro from various files.  This issue
(if an issue) should be resolved across whole package.

ldapmodify.c now uses ber_ allocators to resolve ber_bvfree()
vs. WIN32 multiple heaps issue.

These changes should facilate implementation of
  ber_set_option( NULL, LBER_OPT_MEMORY_FN, ...)
and
  ldap_set_option( NULL, LDAP_OPT_MEMORY_FN, ...).

Added validation to exposed opaque data structures (BerElement, Sockbuf,
and LDAP).  Added macros BER_VALID, SOCKBUF_VALID, LDAP_VALID.
Added ber_pvt_ber_bytes() and ber_pvt_ber_remaining() macros to hide
some ber internals.  These really should be handled by ber_get_option().

safe_string_free was freeing the string value, so we have to save it.

Add schema support

Change to be in line with libldap, i.e. add schema

values will obscure EOF condition on closed sockets.

prototype in ldap-int.h.

Incorporate #define's per Kurt's suggestion

Provide human-readable syntax errors.

Fix namespace contamination, some comments added.

LDAP_OPT_MATCH_STRING to ldap.h and libldap/options.c.

Untested support for parsing attribute type definitions

Initial incomplete and broken version.

 added comments
 removed LDAP_MAX_ATTR_LEN
 removed LDAP_COMPAT* from <ldap.h> but not code.
 move LDAP_DEFAULT_REFHOPCOUNT to ldap-int.h
 added experimental options macros
 added LDAP_CONTROL_REFERRALS macros
libldap:
 Replace ld_attrbuffer with per use allocated attributed.
 ldap_first/next_attribute attributes now must be freed (as per draft).
 unifdef -DLDAP_API_FEATURE_X_OPENLDAP_V2_REFERRALS