This patch fixes some subtle interactions between SLAPI and syncrepl. Due to

SLAPI always assigning connection and operation IDs of zero for internal
operations, such operations would cause a stale contextCSN to be returned from
slap_get_commit_csn(). As a result, SLAPI internal updates would be invisible
to replicas until an external update was made. Also, SLAPI internal operations
never called slap_graduate_commit_csn() which leaked pending CSNs.

Also included in this patch is a general cleanup of some of the SLAPI code.

Note that we need to use a separate mutex on conn_nextid to avoid a deadlock
where a post-operation plugin tries to acquire connections_mutex, having locked
the per-connection mutex, while the listener thread tries to acquire the
per-connection mutex (having locked connections_mutex). connection.c needs to
be fixed to acquire mutexes in the same order.